Want to Make a Difference for Jesus? Make Disciples | Pastor Unlikely

The culture is always dictating to us…and that is not a good thing.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.  Romans 12:2

When we follow the world we turn away from God.  Whether we are watching movies or TV, reading a book or being around others, there are pressures being exerted on us from the world at large.  Be like everyone else is the message we get.  This is just how things are done.  From the time we are small children we learn to follow the crowd if we want to be cool and successful.  Hot and trendy are just two specific terms for the forces exerted to conform us to those around us.  Simply turn on the TV and you are bombarded with directions on everything from raising your kids to how to wear your clothing.  The messages are everywhere and often very subtle.  Sometimes it is really hard to even be aware of a worldly influence pulling at you, much less go against it.  It is like a swimmer caught in a riptide.  The subtle action of the tide moves us before we realize that we are far from where we should be and are in really big trouble.  Yet, go against it is what we are called to do.  Jesus was the ultimate counterculture warrior and He calls us to be the same.  We can never be conformed into the image of Jesus if we are trying to look like our favorite rock star.

But even if we are not swept away in the dangerous societal currents, it is obvious they are eroding the men and boys around us.  Like the waves of the ocean washing away a beach, they are undercutting the ones who God calls to be the leaders of God’s families and His Church.  It can seem hopeless to fight against this overwhelming flood of evil that the world is throwing at us every hour of the day.  As a Christian, is it even possible to be a difference in the world when there are so many forces pulling us in all directions?  With media saturation and accompanying messages at an all-time high, can we cut through all that chatter and noise and make a difference with people?  Yes!  We have Jesus on our side.

The answer is simple:  Yes!  It is the same response as it was at the time of the disciples.  Even just one person following Jesus against the current can have a dramatic impact on society and life.  Not by our power or might, but by God’s Spirit says the Lord.  It only takes a heart for the Lord and faith in His power to change the world.  Through following Jesus and His Word, even if it goes directly against what everyone expects of us.  It is a job that requires two things:  awareness of the Lord’s goals and a willingness to swim against the current.  God has given us His Word for a reason.  It is the lamp for our feet and a light for our path.  We just need to be aware of what it says and be willing to follow it even when everyone else is being pulled the other way.

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One Christian Can Make a Difference

I saw this in action recently while I attending an event with my sons.  It was supposed to be a dad and sons event for a Christian group.  The boys and dads were getting together for a joint activity.  The goal was to have the older guys working with the younger guys on a project and in the process teach them how to be men.  In other words, the goal was not the activity itself, but discipleship.  The model for this is Jesus.  When Jesus taught His disciples, He often would both explain things to them and then show them how to do things.  Jesus lived things out so they could see how things were done before doing it themselves.  It is what great teachers do.  More is caught than taught is the old expression.

The word exhortation we see in the Scriptures means words of encouragement spoken to someone close beside you.  It involves bringing believers who are younger or less mature alongside us for their benefit.  The reason we do this is to show them the way of following Christ.  This is what discipleship is all about.  It was a great goal in concept but on this day the execution was less than perfect.  The problem developed subtly as the meeting got started.  The boys arrived and immediately began working on the project with zeal.  They were eager and ready to go.  They were happy to be with their dads and looked expectantly to them for the next step.  Even in the church today, there are many, many boys who are just dying for a Godly man to show them how to live like Jesus.  With the idea of manhood being so lost, there are even many men who are equally as desperate for a Godly mentor.  Guys, we are called to lead one another in Jesus not get lost is sports or work.

The issue this day was not with the boys but with the men.  The ones supposed to be leading the way got lost in the process.  The dads got caught up in a cultural riptide.  One dad immediately took out his phone and sat down away from the boys intent on ignoring them the rest of the time.  Two others backed away and started talking with each other about sports leaving the group to whoever happened to be in charge.  Other dads gravitated to the two talking guys and two separate groups were the result.   The dads were on one side talking with one another about work and sports.  The boys were on the other side starting the activity with no interaction between the two.  The project the boys were working on still amounted to a fun day, but discipleship was lost.  It was not intentional from the dads.  It was just what they were used to doing

The world really has a thing against dads actually acting like fathers with their children today.  It is just not allowed.  Fathers are depicted and expected to be either blundering idiots, baby daddies or disassociated paycheck machines.  There is no positive picture teaching or encouraging men to get alongside their boys and show them how to do life in a way that honors God.  The Father has been a punchline or a villain for so long it is hard for men to understand any other way.  Our cultural experiences don’t help with this either.  I was at a table with 7 or 8 other men recently and only one of the men had a father who was a positive influence in their life.  The rest of the fathers were abusive, alcoholic or absent.  Though this was a small sampling, it is not inconsistent with the world at large.  Dads have dropped off of the stage and left their kids to the mom, schools, tv or whatever latches onto them.  It is no wonder none of the dads that day knew what to do.  The current pushing men away from Biblical parenting is just so strong, many have never seen it done and don’t even realize they are in trouble.

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Follow Jesus’ Example

This distractions and worldly pressures had the group falling right into the trap.  They would have stayed there, on phones or chatting about work and the local sports team, but here is where one person following the Word made all the difference.  One Christian dad showed something different.  Just one dad determined to disciple his son changed the whole group.  He was not raised better or prepared better, his dad was absent as well.  Rather, I learned later that he simply wanted it to be like the Bible said and decided to trust the Word.  The one dad realized the divide between father and son was not what Jesus wanted.  This was enough for him.

It was not how Jesus would do it or how Jesus treated others in the Bible.  Jesus was up close and personal with the disciples, with his friends, with little children, with everyone.  Jesus offered Himself willingly to everyone and pulled them alongside Him to teach them if they were open to it.  He did not go off and stare at his phone while there were sheep to tend.  Cultural pressures meant nothing to Him as He ignored the expectations of those around Him and entered into discipling relationships with anyone willing to be taught by Him.  He was perfect and sinless but He ate with sinners, drank with the Samaritan woman and cleansed the lepers.  Jesus swam against whatever current was necessary to love people and do His Father’s will.  Jesus acted differently, the dad observed so the dad broke away from what the pack was doing and did his best to follow after Jesus.  The Word was his lamp and his light, he just followed where it led.

This one guy motivated by the same Spirit peeled off from the dad group and began working with each of the kids.  He asked each how it was going, a little about them and showed genuine interest in the boys who will one day be the face of Jesus’ Church on this earth.  He loved them like Jesus loved the ones He encountered.  Jesus cared for His sheep so this dad did the same.  A funny thing followed.  Without a word or signal, the other dads slowly joined in one by one.  Soon there were boys of all ages working side by side with their father or their friend’s father and having a great time doing so.  Though the activity itself will be forgotten in the long run, the lived out message of love for even the least of God’s children likely will not.

We were told after the event that it was the best day ever for one of the younger boys.  Sure it would have been good just to build something by himself, but this time his dad helped him do it and the other dads too.  His dad was not at work, on his phone or watching football.  He was loving him.  He was teaching his son.  So simple, but it is the essence of discipleship.  It is pulling someone alongside yourself and teaching them while walking with them lovingly through this life.

It is just like Jesus did with a bunch of fisherman and tax collectors.  Jesus taught by cleaning His disciple’s feet and then telling them “Hey, look what I just did, you do that”.  Can it get any simpler?  It is just like Paul did with Timothy or Barnabas with John Mark.  They just said “Follow along with me son, watch what I do, listen to what I say until you are ready to do it yourself.  Come close alongside me and I will speak into your life.”

It was a great day.  It would not have happened without one guy willing to pull himself away from the crowd.  One person with Jesus in mind and love for those kids in his heart changed the whole day for two generations of men.

The questions for us are also really simple.  Are we willing to pull ourselves away from the distractions?  Are we willing to swim against the tide even if the current is made up of church people?  If the Bible directs us to act differently than those around us, will we follow?

Are we willing to be a disciple of Jesus to make disciples of Jesus?

If we are willing to challenge expectations and break away from what is easy we can be that guy or gal every single day.  The one who changes things.  Each day we can influence others toward God just like Jesus, Paul and Barnabas did.  We just have to be willing to follow the lamp for our feet and the light for our path.  We have to follow Jesus in order to lead others in Jesus.  “Follow me” Jesus says to us, this is our portion, and then He will make us into something we are not.  When we do that we bring that light into the life of others.

Are we willing to break away today?  Are we willing to be counter-cultural?  If we are then we can make a life-changing difference every day and bring the light that leads us into their world.

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2 thoughts on “Want to Make a Difference for Jesus? Make Disciples | Pastor Unlikely

    • Thanks and thank you for re-blogging. Yes, these days in particular if we follow the pack we are going to be in really big trouble. God bless you!

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